10 Lessons I Learned After Traveling to 50+ Countries
Traveling the world is the ultimate teacher. It throws curveballs, delivers unexpected joys, and leaves you with stories that make you the life of the party—or at least the most interesting person at the dinner table.
After exploring over 50 countries and living abroad for more than a decade, here are the lessons I’ve picked up—ones that have saved my sanity, my wallet, and sometimes my dignity.
Pack Less, Travel Better
Overpacking is a rookie mistake I’ve made more times than I care to admit. Lugging a 20kg suitcase across cobblestone streets or cramming an overstuffed backpack into an overhead bin is a special kind of torture.
You need less than you think—versatile outfits and the essentials will do. What exactly that means depends on where and how you’re traveling, but trust me, less is more.
Imagine this: your suitcase gives out on day 8 in Europe because those cobblestones fought back. Or you’re wading through knee-deep water to catch a longtail boat in Southeast Asia while balancing an overpacked bag.
Yeah, it’s not ideal. (FYI: The first one happened to me, and the second I’ve seen A LOT when living in Thailand!)
Here’s the truth: if you bring a lot, you’ll pay for it—with money, effort, or sanity. Learn from my mistakes—pack reasonably and thank yourself later. Or at the least, have a good excuse for shopping a bit.
Learn Basic Phrases in the Local Language
You don’t need to be fluent, but a few key phrases can take you far. A simple “hello,” “please,” or “thank you” in the local language can turn a cold stare into a warm smile.
It’s also a sign of respect. Apps like Mondly or Fluenday make it easy to learn the basics, and locals will appreciate the effort—even if your pronunciation is, let’s say, creative.
If you’re living abroad and staying in the country longer, make sure to go the extra mile and continue learning.
TIP: Download the language in your Google Translate app for offline use, like when you’re bored on the flight over or lost while wandering the town!
Say Yes (But Know When to Say No)
Some of the best travel memories start with a spontaneous “yes.” Road trips, strange foods, or last-minute plans can lead to amazing adventures.
But here’s the flip side: knowing when to say “no” is just as important. If something feels off or you’re running on empty, it’s okay to bow out. Your safety and sanity are worth more than checking one more thing off your list.
Finding that balance between “yes” and “no” is an art worth mastering.
Travel Insurance Isn’t Optional
Before you roll your eyes, hear me out. Travel insurance is affordable, easy to set up, and could save your butt.
From missed flights to hospital visits, mishaps happen. Insurance gives you peace of mind—and a lifeline when things go sideways.
I’ve used SafetyWing for years; it’s affordable and covers the essentials. Whether you need basic coverage or full-on health insurance, they have options for short and long-term travel.
Hopefully, you’ll never need it, but if you do, you’ll be glad you have it. Think of it as your safety net, not just another expense.
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Embrace the Gray Areas of Travel
Travel isn’t always black and white. Cultures, ethics, and even your own values will clash or evolve.
Travel teaches you to sit with discomfort, ask hard questions, and grow. Be open to new experiences—even the ones that challenge your beliefs. You don’t know what you don’t know until you dive in. The gray areas are where the real lessons are.
The World Is Safer Than You Think
Bad things can happen anywhere, but the world isn’t as scary as the headlines suggest. Common sense goes a long way—watch your stuff, don’t flash expensive gear, and trust your instincts.
Most people are kind and helpful, and a smile can bridge even the widest cultural gaps. Limit going out alone at night for extra safety, and you’ll likely avoid trouble altogether. It’s easier than you think to feel at home anywhere in the world.
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Take Photos, but Don’t Forget to Be Present
Photos are amazing, but don’t let the camera steal the show. Some of my favorite moments—watching a sunrise, sharing a laugh with locals, or soaking in a new place—aren’t on film.
And sad to admit, plenty were filmed, yet I wasn’t present… It’s another balance to find within yourself.
Take your pics, then put the camera away and truly experience the moment. Trust me, you’ll remember it better this way.
Budgeting Smartly Means More Adventures
You don’t have to be rich to travel; you just need to be smart. Fly off-peak, use budget airlines, and embrace public transport.
You can travel to more affordable destinations and use credit cards smartly to earn free travel.
Apps like Worldpackers and TrustedHousesitters (which give you free accommodation) can help keep costs down for those on the road a bit longer.
Of course, you could work abroad too to keep your travel funds in the positive too!
REMEMBER: Don’t skimp on travel insurance—it’s the budget move that’ll save you in the long run.
Slow Travel Beats Rushing
Packing too much into a trip leads to burnout and blurry memories. Slow travel lets you connect with a destination. Stay longer, wander off the beaten path, and embrace unplanned adventures.
If you can’t travel slowly all the time, make an effort to linger in places you love.
People Make the Place
The connections you make often define your travels. A kind stranger, a new friend, or a travel buddy who becomes family—these are the moments that stay with you.
As a solo traveler for years (and still sneaking in solo trips), I’ve met people who changed my perspective. I also met my partner abroad. That was cool!
Solo travel isn’t just about independence, it’s about learning from others.
LOOK! Resources For Your Trip
These lessons didn’t just make me a better traveler—they made me a better person. Whether it’s your first trip or your 50th, I hope these tips help your next trip! Here are some resources before you take off..
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